WHAT IS EXECUTIVE FUNCTIONING COACHING?

Executive Functioning Coaching is a skill building service that helps children, teens and adults develop and strengthen organization, time management, planning, task completion abilities and goal setting and achievement. Unlike therapy, coaching focuses on practical strategy development and implementation rather than addressing underlying emotional or mental health concerns. Executive functions include working memory, task initiation and follow through, sustained attention, performance monitoring, impulse control/inhibition, goal-directed persistence, and metacognition. Many people, particularly those with ADHD, learning differences, or neurodivergent thinking patterns, benefit from specialized coaching to strengthen these skills as well as adults going through different types of life transitions.

One of the responsibilities of parenting is to teach children the skills they need to become effective, independent and self-regulated adults. And for the first decade or so, most children are receptive to their parents teaching them. As they come up on adolescence, however, they begin to resist instruction from their parents. This is because a primary developmental task of adolescence is establishing their own identity and independence. 

When children begin to push back at their parents’ effort to teach them new skills, coaching is an option many parents turn to. Coaching serves as a way station between kids relying on parents to manage (or micromanage them) and them being able to function independently. It’s an approach ideally suited to helping teens grow the executive skills they need to become the independent self-sufficient individuals both they and their parents want them to become.

Coaching is a process whereby adults work with students to help them identify goals that are important to them and to make plans to help them achieve their long-term goals. With younger teenagers, long-term goals may be those the student hopes to accomplish by the end of the marking period. With older teenagers, coaches may continue to work on marking period goals, but they may also work with students to identify the goals they want to accomplish by the time they complete high school.

KEY FEATURES OF COACHING

Coaching approaches vary but some key features in my coaching include:

Coaching has to be voluntary


Coaching has to be voluntary. Individuals who feel pushed into coaching tend to sabotage the process, so we find it helpful to establish up front that the coachee is a willing participant.

the student sets THE goals


It is the student who sets coaching goals and not parents, nor the coach. A primary goal of coaching is to help students become autonomous. The only way this can happen is for students to make key decisions, particularly around the goals they want to work toward.

BABY STEPS


Success with achieving small goals builds a foundation for solid skill development, making it easier for the student to focus and achieve larger goals, but this takes time.

the final decision IS in the STUDENT’s hands


Students help identify the strategies that work for them as they pursue their goals. In this way, the coach acts as a consultant—offering advice and suggesting strategies, but always leaving the final decision in the hands of the student.

WE WILL TRACK PROGRESS


As a coach, I provide ways to track progress so that the students I am working with have clear evidence that they’re being successful. Coaches have an array of measurement techniques they can draw on, selecting the appropriate technique based on the specific goals the student is working on. Giving students clear feedback about their progress is one of the most powerful components of my coaching.

WHO IS EFS COACHING FOR?

Here's how I can support you or your loved one at different stages of life:

  • This can be a challenging time of transition. I help young individuals develop foundational executive functioning skills like organization, time management, and task initiation, crucial for academic success. We also focus on stress management, emotional regulation, and building self-confidence as they navigate social dynamics and increased responsibilities.

  • As academic demands intensify and future plans emerge, I guide high schoolers in refining executive functioning skills essential for tackling complex assignments, preparing for standardized tests, and managing their increasingly busy schedules. We also explore goal setting, decision-making, and self-discovery, fostering resilience and a sense of direction for college or career.

  • The transition to college brings new levels of independence and academic rigor. I support university students in mastering advanced executive functioning strategies for academic excellence, including effective study habits, project management, and balancing coursework with social life. We also address stress, anxiety, and self-care, promoting mental well-being and a smooth adjustment to college life.

  • For adults, life presents unique complexities, whether in career, relationships, or personal growth. I work with adults to enhance executive functioning skills for greater productivity, organization, and efficiency in their professional and personal lives. Utilizing my background in CBT and Somatic Coaching, we also delve into stress reduction, emotional regulation, and fostering the mind-body connection to achieve a holistic sense of well-being, clarity, and purpose.

Our session will be

  • Personalized

    Together we will identify your unique goals and assess your unique strengths and areas where you need more support and we will develop a unique individualized plan to help you achieve your goals.

  • Targeted

    We will work and focus on one goal at the time and make sure that the new habits you build are solid and work with your personal schedule, life and values.

  • Integrative

    The ultimate goal of our sessions is that the new habits you build and strategies you develop are completely integrated in your daily life and they become one more tool in your tool box moving forward.

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